Comments for Tyme Said http://tymesaid.com Tyme White discusses the topics that help make life better...because life is what you make it. Sat, 26 Jul 2008 02:52:18 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.6 Comment on The Connection by Marquite V. http://tymesaid.com/the-connection#comment-6365 Marquite V. Mon, 30 Jun 2008 18:14:42 +0000 http://tymesaid.com/?p=2073#comment-6365 "Scrivs gave excellent advice in the classic Tim video. Love is a verb not a noun, it’s an action. When two people stop connecting it is because they aren’t taking the action to do something, usually the guys. Show your woman you love her. Something like that, I think I’m close on the paraphrasing." I watched his video so many times I still remember it. The girl was safe to feel and get lost in the moment, a moment they were both going to share. Scrivs was so tired of hearing "take the jump" but that's what we're talking about here months later. "Connections are rare, obsessions are not. A crush on a celebrity isn’t a connection. A connection is a relationship." A connection IS a relationship. The two people are already in one. Why restrict it? “Scrivs gave excellent advice in the classic Tim video. Love is a verb not a noun, it’s an action. When two people stop connecting it is because they aren’t taking the action to do something, usually the guys. Show your woman you love her. Something like that, I think I’m close on the paraphrasing.”

I watched his video so many times I still remember it. The girl was safe to feel and get lost in the moment, a moment they were both going to share. Scrivs was so tired of hearing “take the jump” but that’s what we’re talking about here months later.

“Connections are rare, obsessions are not. A crush on a celebrity isn’t a connection. A connection is a relationship.”

A connection IS a relationship. The two people are already in one. Why restrict it?

]]> Comment on The Connection by Foreman http://tymesaid.com/the-connection#comment-6364 Foreman Mon, 30 Jun 2008 18:01:01 +0000 http://tymesaid.com/?p=2073#comment-6364 <strong>Justin are you sure she doesn’t know some of it or worse thinks something worse is going on than actually did? </strong>Women will take the worse route over the better route. She might be thinking something worse than what you actually did but because she loves you forgave you. Justin are you sure she doesn’t know some of it or worse thinks something worse is going on than actually did?

Women will take the worse route over the better route. She might be thinking something worse than what you actually did but because she loves you forgave you.

]]> Comment on The Connection by Charmyn http://tymesaid.com/the-connection#comment-6363 Charmyn Mon, 30 Jun 2008 16:14:36 +0000 http://tymesaid.com/?p=2073#comment-6363 Justin are you sure she doesn't know some of it or worse thinks something worse is going on than actually did? Women tend to be less than optimistic when it comes to situations like this. Worse case: she thinks you don't want her or you love her but don't feel she's good enough for you. Is anything you did worse than that? Justin are you sure she doesn’t know some of it or worse thinks something worse is going on than actually did? Women tend to be less than optimistic when it comes to situations like this. Worse case: she thinks you don’t want her or you love her but don’t feel she’s good enough for you. Is anything you did worse than that?

]]> Comment on The Connection by Justin O. http://tymesaid.com/the-connection#comment-6362 Justin O. Mon, 30 Jun 2008 15:43:28 +0000 http://tymesaid.com/?p=2073#comment-6362 In my case I didn't think our relationship would work out. It was hard but I didn't try anything not because of our feelings. I know she loves me and I love her but there is a lot she doesn't know that she would find out if she was my girl. Would she love me then? In my case I didn’t think our relationship would work out. It was hard but I didn’t try anything not because of our feelings. I know she loves me and I love her but there is a lot she doesn’t know that she would find out if she was my girl. Would she love me then?

]]> Comment on The Connection by sunflower http://tymesaid.com/the-connection#comment-6357 sunflower Mon, 30 Jun 2008 15:21:02 +0000 http://tymesaid.com/?p=2073#comment-6357 ccrivs said in the tim video that it was a connection he and the future female share. scrivs and tyme talked about it too. a connection is two-sided. ccrivs said in the tim video that it was a connection he and the future female share. scrivs and tyme talked about it too. a connection is two-sided.

]]> Comment on The Connection by Meg http://tymesaid.com/the-connection#comment-6359 Meg Sun, 29 Jun 2008 23:36:27 +0000 http://tymesaid.com/?p=2073#comment-6359 I loved that video! It's a moment that deep down I think most people want to experience. That moment cannot be achieved by hiding your feelings. The video was all about expressing emotions not hiding them. Easier said than done but worth it with the right person. I loved that video! It’s a moment that deep down I think most people want to experience. That moment cannot be achieved by hiding your feelings. The video was all about expressing emotions not hiding them.

Easier said than done but worth it with the right person.

]]> Comment on The Connection by George http://tymesaid.com/the-connection#comment-6358 George Sun, 29 Jun 2008 18:36:03 +0000 http://tymesaid.com/?p=2073#comment-6358 Most people have a hard time getting over the first hump. Some people hide their feelings and other blurt it out too quickly. Connections are rare, obsessions are not. A crush on a celebrity isn't a connection. A connection is a relationship. Most people have a hard time getting over the first hump. Some people hide their feelings and other blurt it out too quickly.

Connections are rare, obsessions are not. A crush on a celebrity isn’t a connection. A connection is a relationship.

]]> Comment on The Connection by Mark H. http://tymesaid.com/the-connection#comment-6354 Mark H. Sun, 29 Jun 2008 16:09:58 +0000 http://tymesaid.com/?p=2073#comment-6354 Love isn't logical and that's why as humans we do stupid things. Why hide our feelings from the people we love if we want them closer in our lives? Love isn’t logical and that’s why as humans we do stupid things. Why hide our feelings from the people we love if we want them closer in our lives?

]]> Comment on The Connection by Joseph http://tymesaid.com/the-connection#comment-6355 Joseph Sun, 29 Jun 2008 11:33:08 +0000 http://tymesaid.com/?p=2073#comment-6355 In high school I lost a girl because I was too afraid to tell her how I felt. I saw her in college and she said she had the biggest crush on me but I wasn't into her. I died inside. That day I decided I prefer to lose a girl telling her how I feel and she says no over me being to afraid of her saying no. The girls I'm really into, the ones I feel a connection with said yes. They always did things a woman who wasn't emotionally caught up wouldn't do. In high school I lost a girl because I was too afraid to tell her how I felt. I saw her in college and she said she had the biggest crush on me but I wasn’t into her. I died inside. That day I decided I prefer to lose a girl telling her how I feel and she says no over me being to afraid of her saying no. The girls I’m really into, the ones I feel a connection with said yes. They always did things a woman who wasn’t emotionally caught up wouldn’t do.

]]> Comment on The Connection by Aaron http://tymesaid.com/the-connection#comment-6341 Aaron Sun, 29 Jun 2008 02:30:30 +0000 http://tymesaid.com/?p=2073#comment-6341 Scrivs gave excellent advice in the classic Tim video. Love is a verb not a noun, it's an action. When two people stop connecting it is because they aren't taking the action to do something, usually the guys. Show your woman you love her. Something like that, I think I'm close on the paraphrasing. Mindy if your man was showing you he loves you he wouldn't run to another woman. If you saw the video the ladies that watched it pointed out to me that Scrivs made sure the dream woman was secure and safe to be in the moment, to love him as he loves her. That kind of security cannot come if another woman is involved. I think that is why it came up, the insecurities are overridden by the love. A connection is between two people. Sure each person is aware of the love but a powerful love can be scary at first. Guess the couple just has to take the jump. Scrivs gave excellent advice in the classic Tim video. Love is a verb not a noun, it’s an action. When two people stop connecting it is because they aren’t taking the action to do something, usually the guys. Show your woman you love her. Something like that, I think I’m close on the paraphrasing.

Mindy if your man was showing you he loves you he wouldn’t run to another woman. If you saw the video the ladies that watched it pointed out to me that Scrivs made sure the dream woman was secure and safe to be in the moment, to love him as he loves her. That kind of security cannot come if another woman is involved. I think that is why it came up, the insecurities are overridden by the love.

A connection is between two people. Sure each person is aware of the love but a powerful love can be scary at first. Guess the couple just has to take the jump.

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