Men Traps: - “Which one of my friends…”
Let’s say your girl says:
“I have a question for you. If we weren’t together, and we never met, which one of my friends would you ask out?”
Dude, there is only one acceptable answer to this question:
“Baby, none of your friends interest me like that. I wouldn’t ask any of them out.”
When you respond you have to be smooth, there cannot be a hesitation, matter of fact practice so when the day comes your answer is so natural you should have earned an award. But in truth, one might pop in your mind. If one does, even while you are reading this, that moment is the time to mentally disconnect from this woman. Picture her friend in a way that permanently turns you off. Get rid of the crush because it will only cause you problems in the end.
Note I didn’t recommend you should tell her she’s the prettiest of the bunch so why would you pick anyone else but her? That’s a player’s line - don’t touch it. If she is seeking reassurance that you think she’s beautiful she’ll have to find another way. Your goal, as a man, is to be honest (didn’t I say get rid of the crush?) and sincere with your answer.
You got past that part…now comes the bigger test. These questions don’t come out of thin air. Women aren’t stupid. Yes, it might be insecurity on her part but it could also be that she suspects your crush or she is curious why you picked her if her friend is prettier, has a better figure, etc. Meaning, she might accept your words but might keep an eye on you around her friend in the future. Your actions must match your words.
Which is why I said get rid of the crush. Seriously, get rid of it if you have it.
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Never ask a question like that because even though ur curious u dont really want to know…do u ladies?! An dont check his phone! Acting like u trust him fully is the real trick then he will feel to guilty to cheat.
Posted on April 21st, 2008 at 3:04 pm
On-point. The correct answer is:
E) None of the above
Posted on February 27th, 2008 at 5:27 pm
You are a nice guy, I don’t see you doing it lol. When you hurt someone you hurt twice as much.
Posted on February 10th, 2008 at 11:30 pm
If I got the question I don’t remember it. I remember it coming up with them bringing it up or I brought it up. I only recall doing it once (and we still laugh about it today but seriously, I should check that out, thanks for the reminder) but he was secure that I was joking. I could have been alone with the guy, in a bed, and nothing would have happened. Goes against my ethics.
Posted on February 10th, 2008 at 11:28 pm
I could always tell but thankfully most of my friends are male which has its own set of problems.
Posted on February 10th, 2008 at 6:49 pm
I don’t think I ever asked this. I don’t want to know.
Posted on February 10th, 2008 at 5:47 pm
Same with me. All my exes asked me the same question. I was burnt once by reacting before I thought about it. Never again.
Posted on February 10th, 2008 at 4:25 pm